tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1145148171632886589.post976329205778213100..comments2023-06-10T04:39:56.658-07:00Comments on asexuality unabashed: On Dating SexualsAudacious Acehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14847325942421741617noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1145148171632886589.post-14317012594225156942011-05-15T07:48:16.061-07:002011-05-15T07:48:16.061-07:00I'm very bored cause I have found out your blo...I'm very bored cause I have found out your blog just now! I really enjoy your argument. I think I agree in many topics.<br /><br />But I do have deep problems with worlds... When it all started to me I also tought I was a aromantic... well... nothing really changed... I just realized that some labels are VERY VERY VERY confused.<br /><br />For example... this whole romantic thing... WHAT THE HELL IS 'ROMANTIC'? I've got really frustrated when I found out that in my language I use to translate the term "romantic relationship" as "affective relationship". I said "WHAT?!"... Am I saying that I don't have AFFECTIVE relationships with others?<br /><br />Holy Jesus... no! I DO have! It's impossible to not have... If it's a personal relationship (not a commercial, professional, etc. one) I ALWAYS HAS affection - in a negative or positive form.<br /><br />How can I say that "Joan" is a aromantic girl? Because she doesn't enjoy kissing? What the SENSE of this thing?! GOD! IT'S CRAZINESS!<br /><br />Well... getting back to me... After some time I understood that it's almost perfect like this Simone's incredible phrase (that you also have in this blog): "In itself, homosexuality is as limiting as heterosexuality: the ideal should be to be capable of loving a woman or a man; either, a human being, without feeling fear, restraint, or obligation.".<br /><br />The idea of romantism may not be (actually... it isn't) about... how can I say?... LOVE... affection... or anything else... Romantism is not much different from this other craziness that we call by "sexual orientation".<br /><br />Well... I hope you write something new soon! I'll be waiting.Júlio Netohttp://www.assexualidade.com.br/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1145148171632886589.post-38570710842267115572011-04-16T13:10:50.458-07:002011-04-16T13:10:50.458-07:00I have often wondered if I'm a demisexual but ...I have often wondered if I'm a demisexual but whenever I've tried to mention this to my current partner I'm told I'm thinking too much.<br /><br />I'm always stressing intimacy so that when the 'sex' factor shows up and I feel I owe it to them I can at least be invested in their personality enough that it makes me happy that I pleased them. Granted, I no longer feel I have to subject myself to such a circumstance. But I have always wondered...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1145148171632886589.post-12294687024227365492011-04-12T13:37:17.471-07:002011-04-12T13:37:17.471-07:00Well put. There seem to be a lot of posts cropping...Well put. There seem to be a lot of posts cropping up on this, especially personal stories of positive ace/sexual relationships and how the couples navigate it. Hopefully this will set other aces on solid ground, and show that you don't have to sacrifice or compromise your identity to be in a successful relationship.maddoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04724703551253667180noreply@blogger.com